How can you know if he doesn’t love you anymore? What are the signs that he doesn’t love you anymore? It can be really frustrating to be in love with someone who does not love you back. There are so many women who are in relationships with men who do not love them. Yes, it can be sad to learn that the person your heart yearns for doesn’t feel the way that you do. But, it is always better to be safe than sorry. Agreed, there are men who are pretty good actors, they can act their way to winning an Oscar! But there are signs that you can look out for in order to know if he loves you or not:
He Does Not want you to Know Anything about Him
A man who loves you will have nothing to hide from you. If your man is evasive when you ask him questions especially about his family, then this means he does not envision a life with you. He would even be happy if you show interest in getting to know more about him.
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He is Only Interested in Sex
He only shows affection when he is interested in having sex with you, and the moment you tell him that you are not in the mood, he immediately gets upset and makes an excuse to leave. If a man is only interested in having sex with you, then you need to understand that he is not interested in building a relationship with you. Any fool can have sex; a real man is interested in building a relationship.
He is Not Affectionate with You
The only time he wants to hold or kiss you is when he is ready to have sex! When you kiss him he opens his eyes and he is looking around. These are signs that you should seriously consider.
He Does Not Want to be Seen with You
This is an obvious sign! A man who does not love you does not want to be seen in public with you – this will ruin his chances with other prospective victims. When I was still in college, one of my female friends was in a relationship where her boyfriend told her not to even look at him when they are in public! Of course, he broke up with her the moment he found someone else.
He Makes Promises that He NEVER Keeps
He keeps making promises to you but never keep them. “I am going to take you out” – but he goes out alone. “I am going to meet your friends” – but he ends up cancelling on you. “Sure, I am going to bring you to my family barbeque party” – but, he could not take you because something came up. Think about it, there is a reason why he chooses not to keep the promises he makes.
He Disrespects you
He totally disrespects you. He flirts with other women, he puts you down in front of everyone and he actually makes you feel like crap.
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You do not deserve to be with a man who could care less about you! Take the hint!
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